Through what I will call tribal living I have seen change in my life. I have been and am being refined. I have been cared for and comforted. I have learned more, I have lingered longer. My walk with God has been so sweet and so good. I have leaned in to prayer and study more than ever. These women, this tribe, they have set me free from perfection and performance. They meet me where I am and lift me up when I need lifted. God has used these authentic relationships to reveal pieces of me that need mending, shaping and refinement. God has shown me his grace, love and provision through these women. He has taught me how to love outside my comfort zone and how to say I'm sorry even when it was really hard to do.
My willingness to open myself up to authenticity has allowed for some of the best years in my life. Not because they have been free from hurts, difficulties and trials. Definitely not! These last few years have been trial, after trial, after trial. God provided helpmates for me, to be real with, to hold fast to truth with, to hold me accountable and encourage me to seek first the kingdom for all things. Not to seek them, but to seek the kingdom.
We also open ourselves up to be the tribe for others. Beth Moore reminded us in one of her studies that you can't be turned inward with your people all the time, we must not be shut off to the other people out there. So, we turn outward, we care for others, we bring others in and teach them how to be authentic. We cannot be an elite club of women, we have to be inclusive, as women we should always be working on this.
May I encourage you right where you are to begin praying for authentic relationships with other women. To break down walls with each other and do life together. It may hurt sometimes. It may not be easy. You may not always agree. But if you fight for it it will become some of the most beautiful things about your life here on earth. Community, unity and tribal living has offered some of the best moments of my life. I pray that you will find the same. I have so much more to say on this topic, maybe a study of community will be in order here. Until then, who can you build an authentic relationship with in the new year. How can you break down the walls and reveal true pieces of yourself to help another woman struggling? Maybe it's as simple as asking someone to coffee and truly getting to know here or maybe it's taking a leap of faith and starting a prayer group. I can't wait to hear how this changes your life! Keep me updated!!!!
You are worthy of really good people in your life, who see you as a woman who is fearfully and wonderfully made in His beautiful image.
PS- Pray hard ladies, you will have to fight for this at every turn because UNITY in women is so very glorifying to God and feels impossible at times! Pray harder, fight for each other it is worth it! I promise...
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