It is officially winter on Ferrell Farms. The sky is deary, the days are short, it's cold and there is snow. Let me peel back a layer of myself and tell you I despise winter. It is just all the things. I don't like being cold, I can't drive in winter weather due to a car vs black ice situation that could have ended my life and I have seasonal depression so there's that. WINTER, yuck. However, I have seen some beautiful things around me this winter that called me outside with the little's this weekend.
The last few years I have been all in and committed to transparency. I don't want any woman to begin talking to me, hear me speak or read my blog and think she just has it all together. I always want you to be reminded that I am a hot mess. There is no perfection in the lines of these words. I am 100% washed in the grace and blood of Jesus and that is the only way this hot mess steps one foot in front of the other most days. So, I have a group of women (my prayer group that is now a part of the Imperfectly Brave movement, you can join in too!) that I am nothing but 100% real with. This week they literally heard me talk about how I have felt so out of sync with God these last two weeks. I told them all the yucky places while they all sat around my farmhouse table and nodded their heads. Their pointing fingers were down, they were judgement free and they let me say all the things. Then they prayed with me. I cry with them I laugh with them and we are so real. From that group I have realized we just need to be so very real with each other. If we walk in perfection, there is no room for Jesus. If I act like I've got this all under control then I can't show you that it is only through Christ that I am even keeping my head a float.
Under the snow, was the mud. But the mud reminded me that there is life, real true growing life under there. Snow is the precipitation that keeps our ground watered and prepared for the planting and the harvest. The mud holds that all together till the harvest comes. There is beauty in each role, the snow, the mud, the yucky of it all holds a beautiful picture in the end. I want to present Jesus in a good light, I want to be washed white and I am, but then I get muddy again and there is grace. Wash, rinse and repeat. Perfection only takes away from the beauty of grace, and ladies grace is where it's at. May I always be reminded of the hot mess that Jesus loves so fiercely he gave his life away for all the mess to be washed in the blood and remade into a beautiful daughter of the most high King.
I took my eyes off the prize last week and in my transparency I found it all again. In my weakness he stayed strong, sought me out and brought me back. It's not different for you sweet girl. You can be real, there are people out there that need you to show the imperfection to see the work that the Lord has done and is doing. May we all find grace in the muddy places, for the harvest will be plentiful.